Fairy Communication

My sister Susan has written this post on communicating with fairies–

Hello,  I would like to talk about something most people would probably think was impossible.  I communicate with the fairy realm and I think it is quite possible for other people to learn to do this as well.

First of all, it’s important to understand that for me, I hear the fae speaking in my head, not with my ears.  The communication comes like a thought in your head that you know wasn’t your thought to begin with.  Like I said before, I think other people can learn to do this but it requires a little preparation beforehand, especially when you are just beginning, so here’s what I suggest:

We have a post here that goes over some great ways to attract the fae into your world so go and read it and do whatever you feel would work best for you. There’s no sense in trying to talk to someone who isn’t even there, is there?

Communication will work best if you are in a relaxed, open state of mind so go to a quiet, comfortable place and take a few relaxing deep breaths.   You might want to put on some soothing music, light a candle or some incense–anything that will quiet your mind and body.  The goal here is to have your mind cleared of all static so it will be easier to hear what they are saying.

The power that comes from crystals can strengthen communication and increase your chances of hearing voices from the fairy realm. I recommend holding a quartz crystal if you have one because, in my experience, it helps focus the communication and makes it clearer.  Moldavite is another great stone to use for this purpose and it is very powerful.  Since Moldavite is a meteorite and not orginally from our world, it is great to use when trying to communicate with other realms.

Herbs can sometimes be useful in strengthening communication too.  I think (and the Elves agree) that Mugwort is one of the best herbs to use for this purpose so give it a try.  You can hold it in your hand or put it in a pouch and wear it around your neck–just experiment and see what works best for you.

Now down to the actual communicating with the fae. Remember they are not completely like humans–they are super sensitive to what you say so choose your words carefully.

Ok, once you are pretty sure they are nearby and you are relaxed and ready, start by introducing yourself.  I usually say something like, “Hi I’m Susan, I know that fairies exist and I sense you here.  What is your name?”  Listen carefully for an answer and try not to doubt the response you receive in your head.  It may take a few tries before you get a response but fairies are very curious and they will definitely draw closer and see if you are for real.  Once they see that you are sincere, they will usually respond.

If, after giving it a good try, you are still unable to hear them, there are other ways of communicating. I always think it is a good idea to tell them out loud that you sense them–if you do, of course.  I usually follow this by saying that I am leaving something especially for them, something shiny is always a good bet. Before too long, you might find something missing because they love to play practical jokes by taking and hiding things you use a lot like keys or glasses.  Sure enough,  if you demand (as nicely as possible) that they put it back,  you will find the lost item soon, right about where you thought it was in the first place!

Fairies can also show up in your dreams and meditation and they often work first from the dream world and back to the waking world.  Ask for them to come into your dreams and if you are sincere, they just might respond.

Lastly, watch your environment for communication from the fae.  Be aware and notice elvish energy such as mists, hazy movements, orbs, pops of energy and quick movement out of the corner of your eye.  There’s nothing quite like seeing a ball of light coming right at you to convince you that fairies are real!


Update:   To help in communication, we have  new post titled “The Fairy Communication Amulet,” which you can read here.


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  1. rico paulo August 12, 2009 at 10:25 am

    so…you were saying if i’m happy,positive and gentle or calm,they would come? ohhhh…yeah! if i am mad, they’re not going to let me see them…..sorry natalie!!! ehe….i’ll try my very best not being mad!!!
    sorry i said that it wont work….i’ll just try my best…..k?
    yours truly,

    • Natalie Lynn August 12, 2009 at 4:41 pm

      Hi rico,

      Yes, you got it exactly right. Maybe it would help you if you understood that fairies aren’t here to please you, it’s not their job. Working with them requires patience and interacting on their terms, not yours.

      Bri3 gave some excellent advice to you – if they aren’t responding, make sure they are actually there to begin with.

      Below, I’m copying something I wrote in the “Most Frequently Asked Fairy Questions” post, and maybe you will find it helpful:

      I know it’s disappointing and frustrating when you don’t get results right away but when this happens, it could be because there were no fairies around to interact with. It can take a while for them to notice you–especially in the winter time. And, even when they notice you, it isn’t an absolute guarantee that they will want to communicate with you instantly. Sometimes they want to check you out and see if you are the type of human they would like to connect with. Fairies tend to be shy and mistrusting of humans and they generally have little time for humans who, in their view, have thoughtlessly mistreated the earth we both share. This is often a big obstacle that has to be overcome and you will probably need to prove yourself and earn their trust before they will decide to reach out to you.

      So, how can you prove yourself? Well, in order for the fairies to have a good opinion of you, you will need to let them see that you care for our earth and the environment. Recycling, tending a garden, looking after wildlife (I was a wildlife rehabilitator, for example), conserving energy, composting, reusing instead of discarding, and using natural products are all good ways to show the fae that you are sincere. But, proving to them that you are sincere and that this isn’t just another passing fancy for you, can take some time. How long it will take depends on you, and how sincere they perceive you to be.

      If you are patient and show them you are a caring, respectful, and dedicated person, they may reward and encourage you with a small glimmer of their presence. Be watchful because these offerings of their presence could go unnoticed to those who aren’t paying close attention. That little glimmer you thought you saw, that missing item, or that movement out of the corner of your eye could be one of those. If they see that you notice, you may get more of their attention and presence. Be sure to thank and encourage them anytime you think they have reached out to you.


  2. Bri3 August 12, 2009 at 11:07 am

    umm,rico,as soon as i read your comment i could tell why the fairies would not like to communicate,i’m not natalie and i truthfully am scared to try to communicate with a fairy but i am only trying to say that it does take patience to see one,but maybe you should try attracting them first if you haven’t,and it’s very unlikely that a fairy would want to show itself to you if you don’t try communicating with it first. again,i’m not natalie but i think your best bet would be to ask them out loud for them to visit you in your dreams and stay persistent,then see where you go from there.remember i haven’t tried to communicate with a fairy yet because i am a little scared but that is my opinion on what you should do. good luck,Bri3

    • Natalie Lynn August 12, 2009 at 4:35 pm

      Hi Bri3,

      That is excellent advice that you gave to rico– good job!


  3. van21?!!!! August 12, 2009 at 11:45 am

    hi,i am new me and my cousin we reade your story and details we r excited to see a fairy we were wondering if you can hepl us?

    • Natalie Lynn August 13, 2009 at 5:33 pm

      Hey Van21,

      What kind of help do you need?


  4. van21?!!!! August 12, 2009 at 11:52 am

    Im very intersted in your website. ps sorry for the mistake !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  5. rico paulo August 12, 2009 at 5:45 pm

    hi natalie,
    thank you really much!!! you know in that time,i was about to give up cauz i cannot see fairies in that time!!! but….you let me to go forward!!!! i’m not giving up i promise!!! thankz a lot…:)
    rico… 🙂

  6. No Name Please! August 12, 2009 at 10:14 pm

    me again! my lil sis caught me on this site-shes very annoying-and she kinda has an, anger issue. shes cursed a few times today, and now shes mad cuz the fairies r not coming. do u think theyd like her if she did that stuff??

  7. Taylor August 12, 2009 at 10:21 pm

    wait a sec…i know someone named bri…who is ur age! thats weird lol. o well i dont think its her lol srry bout that…*i used to b no name please lol*

  8. Taylor August 12, 2009 at 10:38 pm

    um i heard some voices and a little singing and a white light next to my bed. do u think their here cuz its happening right now im playing breathe by taylor swift is that ok she seems to like it gtg try to get my fairys name. i dont wanna catch her dont worry i wont…wow she sounded good even tho i could barely hear her.byez

  9. Taylor August 12, 2009 at 10:42 pm

    um when i asked her mane the first thing to pop up in my head was Ameila or something with an A…what fairy names usually start with an A?

  10. Taylor August 12, 2009 at 10:43 pm

    name srry lolz

  11. Vivi August 13, 2009 at 3:28 am

    I got another dream when my mum shot my pic at my room. Then she notice there was a white orb floating next to my ear. I think I sorta hear, that time, “hear me”. Then my mum zoom the pic and saw a head, wings, and body. The next day I took a look at the pic then I have a sudden shock. It was one painfull shock then I threw the picture away. Then a voice called out ” be gone ” any explanation to that?

    I think the fae’s hate me 🙁

  12. Bri3 August 13, 2009 at 8:38 am

    vivi i don’t think the fae hate you i think you are being visited by an unseelie fairy. i think to keep a positive attitude and tell them those with bad intent are not welcome here.
    hope this helps and i am not from this website,bri3 🙂

  13. Bri3 August 13, 2009 at 8:40 am

    natalie,just wanted to say thanks for the earlier comment. staying persistence and patient cross your fingers for me! 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

  14. Bri3 August 13, 2009 at 8:41 am

    i meant to say persistent 😀

  15. rico paulo August 13, 2009 at 9:39 am

    hi Bri3,
    thank you,earlier on what you said to me………. 🙂 i’ll try that….i made a fairy house and they wont come!!!! i made the fairy house(by drawing without tracing) and also the signs on the top…and i think i did’nt said to the fairies to come visit me in my dreams….and thankx!

  16. Bri3 August 13, 2009 at 3:18 pm

    you’re welcome!really!i have been having some luck with the fairies!i went in the backyard and stood by the arch.i kept hearing this subtle buzzing sound but then it stopped.then i asked what is your name,etc then i asked can you give me a sign that you are here or do something previous that you’ve done before then i heard that buzzing sound again!i said thank you and then when i went inside it must’ve rewarded me for recognizing a sign or something because then when i was watching tv i saw what looked like a white orb fly down by the window,i said thank you again. (i saw it out of the corner of my eye)but then a bird flew back up from a different angle.are the fairies testing me or was that just a bird? i’m pretty sure it was a fairy but there are other possibilities. i invited some fairies in for snacks tonight which if they come will increase my chances of getting a visit in mmy dreams,and it’s only been two days!omg!hopefully they come,i set out some fruit punch mixed with water (so it doesn’t stain if it spills) and a cookie and cheerios in a bag. do you think they will come? anyone?lol 😀

  17. 135rico79 August 13, 2009 at 4:06 pm

    omg!!! wow! you’re really aRE in luck!!! can you tell me what’s your secret? i really want to se one!!! i realy believe in them! bye!

  18. Bri3 August 13, 2009 at 6:19 pm

    hi rico i don’t know,ever since i sttumbled upon this website i have been really sensitive of what’s around me,like some sense has been awakened.now when i say that i don’t mean a sixth sense but like more aware of what to look for. what i do is ask the normal things like what is your name and suchand then even though i get no response i carry on a normal conversation with myself then eventually ask for a sign and then i get one.i honestly think i am going to talk with them soon,but i am absolutely sure they are still checking me out for what kind of person i am. 🙂 hope this helps bri3
    ps i am only ten years old!!!!

  19. rico paulo August 13, 2009 at 6:32 pm

    i am ten years old too!

  20. Bri3 August 13, 2009 at 7:10 pm

    cooli have always believed in fairies and this is my life’s dream coming true,but i still have to pass the test. 😀

  21. rico paulo August 13, 2009 at 7:51 pm

    hi natalie,
    how do i tell them to meet me in my dream…..do i just like say it..what if they are not there….what! i really want them to visit me in my dreams….bye!

    • Natalie Lynn August 13, 2009 at 8:22 pm


      Yes, right before you go to sleep ask them to connect with you in your dreams. If they aren’t there, well, I guess they won’t hear you but what do you have to lose? 🙂

      This takes time and patience as well as working on the other things I wrote to you about, right?


  22. rico paulo August 13, 2009 at 8:52 pm

    i dont actually know what you’re trying to say….hehe!

  23. rico paulo August 13, 2009 at 9:25 pm

    i know what you’re saying now!patience right? i need to try and try again even though it’s been like a thousand years! so you were saying that i’m going to tell them to visit me in my dreams but if they’re not there,i’ll just try again next time! oh! i know! you said if fairies are near,you’ll feel an insect on your hair,crawling! so, if i feel that,i would say that meet me in my dream! hurray….i know what to do now!!!! bye!


    • Natalie Lynn August 13, 2009 at 10:28 pm

      Hi rico,

      I ‘m pretty sure–no, I’m absolutely sure–that I never said “if fairies are near you will feel an insect on your hair crawling.” Must have been someone else…


  24. Taylor August 13, 2009 at 10:08 pm

    hey after reading da doll thing im rlly scared now. wat should i do?????

  25. Taylor August 13, 2009 at 10:10 pm

    and.. i dont like bugs so i might. i think i felt it ahhhh I DONT LIKE BUGS!!!!!!!!!!!

  26. rico paulo August 13, 2009 at 10:35 pm

    oh yeah! it was on the other website! oops! its called the fairy facts….is it true that if something was crawling on your head but nothing was on there means that fairies are near??/ bye!

  27. rico paulo August 14, 2009 at 11:22 am

    hello! i made the fairy house that you wanted me to try! i think yeah……how many days do i have to check my fairy house again if fairies are like eating it??? how many??? please answer back! thankz! bye!


  28. Natalie Lynn August 14, 2009 at 12:50 pm

    Hi Vivi –

    Why am I so busy….let’ see, I have a wholesale business to run, three websites to manage and answer questions/write posts for, the elves to work with and two teenagers to parent. It makes for a very busy day! 🙂


  29. Bri3 August 14, 2009 at 1:30 pm

    what other sites do you have? i’d like to take a look at them.

  30. 135rico79 August 14, 2009 at 5:23 pm

    hey! what day do the fairies most love…i mean like what day do thaey like celebrate??? this month? august or winter????

  31. Emily August 16, 2009 at 7:25 pm

    I went to my garden today and just said out loud that i welcome fairies with good intent, and i just want to talk and make a friend. i got a voice in my head that said hi i’m and then a name. the name was something that i would never have though of, but i just cant help but have doubts. i built a little house after that and put some flowers and shiny objects in it. i don’t mean to offend anyone but i felt like a crazy person after and i began to wonder if it was an overactive imagination that put the words in my head. i have always believed in something other than human world and at times i feel like there is something about me that is different but i have shrugged that off as a feeling every person gets at one point in their life. I really really want to believe in fairies without having that nagging though that i am crazy. is there anything you know of that could help me believe?
    thanks for your time!

  32. Emily August 16, 2009 at 10:28 pm

    im 13 and when i was around 9 or 10 i was bouncing on my trampoline and i live right on a reservation so we can walk in the woods and find smalls ponds and stuff. and i was looking at a tree and the sun was out it looked like there were these two small people about 8 inch tall and the other was around 10 or 11 and the were just moving around in the tree it was like the bark was like a window or something.
    also what are imps? i read a book with one and im not sure if the are classified as fairies…

  33. Emily August 18, 2009 at 11:02 am

    Sorry about all the questions!
    I was thinking about purchasing the elven fairy pendant, but if i do then i will have to tell my mom, and she may think I’m crazy or she may think that and not show it, or there is a good chance, that she will agree because she does believe in another world… anyways I just want to be sure… will the pendant attract more fairies? has anyone noticed a difference with wearing it?

    • Natalie Lynn August 18, 2009 at 12:35 pm

      Hi Emily,

      Fair question, and I think I have an answer 🙂

      First of all, I am a mom so I’m naturally going to say, why not tell her and see what she says first? Sometime we think people are going to react a certain way and then we are surprised when it goes another way entirely. Just my 2 cents worth…

      Now about the pendant and the “will it work” question. Well, the pendant is a magical symbol and symbols do have a specific energy of their own to begin with and they will help attract a similar energy. But it is only a tool, and it will work best when you add your energy and work with it.


  34. Emily August 18, 2009 at 6:10 pm


    Yeah i do have a feeling that she won’t mind. I remember I asked her if she believed in magic and she said yes. plus she is really understanding! Thanks!


  35. Abby August 27, 2009 at 5:57 am

    Hi Natalie,

    I’m going to a waterfall area soon. Would it be a possible chance that a fairy might follow me home? o.o

    I’m getting ready some crystals too

  36. J.Saint August 27, 2009 at 2:05 pm

    I have a question… I’ve recently (in the last 8 months) learned a new way of thinking. Not going to go into a whole lot of detail, but basically my thoughts are almost invisible to my conscious mind when i’m in this state. Sorry, a little background before the question. But back to my main point.

    Yesterday, I had to break up with a girl. Because I can only see her as a friend, and I refuse to lie. About anything. (it’s tricky sometimes, but I delight in tricking people without telling a mistruth [although not in this particular case]). But I was walking home, about a mile and half, and was really angry with myself. Raging, in fact. But at what I’d estimate to be the mile mark, maybe another quarter; I basically ‘felt’ thoughts that weren’t like mine in that thinking zone I spoke of.

    But because of my anger, I didn’t want to listen to anything, all my thoughts were on her. And I cussed at them. After the first, they started again, but then they stopped…

    I figured it was just me ragin at myself, and new thoughts that were making me angrier still. After reading some of these posts, and the atricle itself, I wonder if it might have been a faerie trying to speak to me. What do you think? And if it was, how do I know whether they were good or not? And if they’re good, will I be able to contact them again, even after my first reaction? Oh yeah, and this might be important– I started drawing the communication amulet in my palm, as well as focusing my intent, and my third eye. Heh, I haen’t worked with my other chakras in a while I should do that soon.

    Sorry, one question turned to three as I was typing… Any opinions/answers/etc., would be welcome.

    And I can explain my thinking or anything else I mentioned further if you’d like.

  37. FullMoonLite August 27, 2009 at 6:21 pm

    hello 🙂
    um…do u know if there is like a store in WI that sells crystals??? like in the area MFalls maybe??
    Thank you XD

    • Natalie Lynn September 1, 2009 at 2:33 pm

      Hi FullMoonLite,

      There are probably lots of places in WI that sell crystals, etc. but I’m sorry, I don’t know where MFalls is so I can’t help you too much there. Maybe someone else here can help?


  38. Bri3 August 29, 2009 at 1:23 pm

    ok this is a bit of an odd dream i had the other night:
    ok this is sort of an embarrassing part i was with the scooby-doo gang (lol)and i went to this big white building. one of the walls was a complete window and it was more of a skinny rectangular building. so anyway the building is full of people trying to look at something, i didn’t know what was to see other than a big garden. then out of one of the flowers emerges a bit of a younger (not by far) version of myself. i turn to a lady who looked hispanic and said “hey, i just saw myself pop out of a flower.” and then the lady says “oh no, cancer is going to use up all his transformation bottles.” and i was thinking to myself “what is this lady talking about!!!!” then i woke up. i thought the creature that emerged looking like the younger version of myself was a fairy, because it was an extremely light sleep, it felt as if i hadn’t slept at all! then i thought “well why would a fairy have a transformation bottle, and what is one anyway?” i think along with the scooby doo gang that my sub-conscious mind was adding things in along with the dream that the fae may or may not haave intended. cancer, could that be a fairy name? because the day after i kept seeing the letters “CC” wherever i looked as if i had stared at a lightbulb, but these looked so clear that it looked as though they had been drawn before my eyes. the colors i saw it in were usually red, purple, or pink. a couple nights before i had a dream of a wishing rock, (completely unrelated to fairies, but you’ll find out why i’m saying this in a few secs)and i could wish for anything.i haven’t had pleasent dreams in so long, not since i was six. ever since then i have had nightmares. why the sudden change? do you think it might be a good prescense?

  39. Navneeta ray August 31, 2009 at 1:38 am

    It cud be bri 🙂 I m glad dat u r atlast havin sweet dreams 🙂 so I wish 4 u sweet dreams 4 u for d rest of ur life honey 🙂 fairydust, blessed it be

  40. FullMoonLite September 1, 2009 at 6:51 pm

    ok thanks for ur help though 🙂

  41. Bri3 September 3, 2009 at 8:13 am

    Thanks navneeta that’s really nice

  42. Tamisin September 8, 2009 at 9:53 pm


    I and my bestie have a webshow where we dress up as fairies and do an improv comedy. We both strongly believe in fairies and are trying to communicate with them. Anyways, back to the webshow, I was thinking about it the other day and I was wondering if the fairies would find it offensive. Like we were trying to make fun of them or something. We absolutely ARE NOT but I just wanted to make absolute sure that they knew that…the reason that we dress up as fairies is because we love them so much 😀

    Also, I have a kind of interesting story to share(well, I thought it was interesting anyways): this past week I was really sick. Well, I was on this site trying to find ways to communicate with fairies and I saw the Fairy Protection Rune. Well, I thought it was really cool and I wanted to show it to my bestie(the one I do the webshow with) but for some reason none of the pictures I was taking of the computer screen were turning out. So I decided to get a ball-point pen and draw the symbol on my hand. Well, later that day I was joking around with her that maybe since I had the Protection Rune on my hand that the fairies would make me feel better. The next morning when I woke up I felt completely better…do you think it was the fairies looking out for me?

  43. Tamisin September 8, 2009 at 10:11 pm

    Sorry, one more thing. I have a small blown glass fairy that is quite beautiful. If I put her in my pixie house that I’m about to build will the fairies take it? Cause I’m sure they’d like it but…well, so do I. lol, it was a gift and I just want to make sure thet both the fairies and I can enjoy it.

    Thanks =)

  44. ARGENIS September 11, 2009 at 4:28 pm

    i have tried being calm outside in my back yard and it doesent work. I even sing sons and i have read all of your stories (btw their amazing) and i have tried giving them some sweets and have also tried to tell them to come to my dreams and ihave even put up the fairy flag. Anyways, i dont get the point in being calm and trying to see if you sense fairies, i have tried everything and im tired of getting nothing from them. I am a total farie believer but i dont know what to do.

  45. Annoymous September 13, 2009 at 9:03 pm

    Hi I just wanted to say (since looking at kitkat’s story) I also would have to say that I am a fairy as well. I know others that are apart of this “bond” that somehow is never broken and we all have had supernatural experiences and we have “sparkly wings” on the back of us. That only we can see. I am the only one that can see our powers, though. And I wonder why that is. We call ourselves a part of a club. I SOMETIMES see other fairies, mostly dark and mischeivious. I just know I’m apart of an Earth power realum because I feel a connection with trees and flowers. I have a question. Does me being magical affect how I can talk to the other fairies? Will they know who I am or no?

  46. dante September 23, 2009 at 4:54 pm

    its possible you dont have any in your backyard if not them you can call some or make a fairy garden i have roses and theses trees with flowers in it or maybe they dont know know enough of you.if you have humming bird or butterflies you definitely have some there.

    hope i help,

  47. dante September 26, 2009 at 9:19 am

    this week i felt like they werent there..some go to warmer places and some stay …but they will eventually come back and even if there not there there still there…ask em if theyre there
    and for a sign…it work…

    hope i help,

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